A good woman is recognized by her ability to endure pain without saying anything. She must accept violence, infidelity, degradation, hard work with little or no compensation. She shouldn't use methods to relieve pain during childbirth, otherwise she isn't brave enough. She should not use machines to facilitate her cooking, otherwise she is considered lazy and not a good wife... There are so many examples where our pain is celebrated and encouraged that we somehow begin to be proud of our ability to endure the pain.
The fact that reporting anything that contributes to women's pain is considered as hatred towards men is crazy.
Most feminists have nothing on men. They have something against a certain category of them: abusers. Like many self-proclaimed feminists, Although pain and bad experiences may be the reason someone is battling something, most of us are healing through that fight, and I am more balanced than ever thanks to many principles that feminism has taught me. Whether you accept it or not, we will do our best to make young girls say no to pain, make them choose, make themselves happy.
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