Good morning all,
As I set here with my coffee ☕. I was recapping on a conversation I had, with one of my good friends, and we were taking about plastic surgery.
She mentioned during downtime, she hasn't had the time to get her fillers, or attend to her beauty regimen, and it had her in the dumps about how she looked, which made her even more focused on her looks, her weight and things she wanted to enhanced.
I told her as her friend she didn't need it. And she replied "well you wouldn't understand ".. WAYMENTTTTT.. that's bullshit!!!! because I have , as I do with many things, I look at the long term effect vs. The short term effect, God knows I've fallen victim to seeing one of my favorite celebrities grace the screen after having a baby Or getting that tummy tuck and wonder , how would I look . Then you start to wonder will your spouse, bf, gf, significant other will accept your change , or are they silently rooting for you to do the shit.
I've walked by that mirror and wonder what if..
Society has us so fucked that , we are alternating our looks just to fit in. Which shouldn't be the case. I work at a surgery center where I see not only women but men alter their appearance, to please not themselves first, but for the praise and admiration of others, they've did it off a recommendation of their loved one, or a job.. but wasn't true to themselves...
At this point I personally decided it wasnt worth it, the side effects, the pain. the cost , because let me tell you once you start ,this is a lifetime process of an up keep.
So after me and her did our video chat , she gave it some thought and sent me a picture in her natural state and was like" ya know what, I think I need to learn me and love me.. thank you"... as I do with all things in life change is good for the better but within reason, now I'm saying not and rule it out , because you have have women who's had breast cancer. and wants to fix herself, you have that person who has lost so much weight that the access just hangs. You've had that domestic violence survivor who's had to fix to fix items because of the severity of their scars , All I saying don't destroy the blueprint God gave you for no reason at all..
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Quita❤
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